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This article was co-authored by Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW. Kelli Miller is a Psychotherapist based in Los Angeles, California. Kelli specializes in individual and couples therapy focusing on relationships, depression, anxiety, sexuality, communication, parenting, and more. She is the author of “Love Hacks: Simple Solutions to Your Most Common Relationship Issues” which details the top 15 relationship issues and 3 quick solutions to each. She is also the award-winning and best-selling author of “Thriving with ADHD”. Kelli co-hosted an advice show on LA Talk Radio and was a relationship expert for The Examiner. She received her MSW (Masters of Social Work) from the University of Pennsylvania and a BA in Sociology/Health from the University of Florida. This article has been viewed 566,493 times.
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Article SummaryXIf your girlfriend is feeling down, just being there for her can make a big difference. Hang out with her and let her know you’re there if she wants to talk. Instead of assuming what she wants, ask her. Say something like, “Is there anything I can do?” or “Do you want to talk about it, or do you need a distraction?” Be kind and patient and offer her affection if she wants it. If she wants to talk, listen actively and give her your full attention. If she doesn’t feel like talking, look for ways to lift her mood like going out for a walk, watching a movie, or working on a project together. Go out of your way to make her life a little easier by doing little things for her, like bringing her some tea or a favorite snack. For more ideas on special things you can do together to cheer up your girlfriend, scroll down!
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